Fostering: Enriching my family's life one dog at a time
by Kevin Tanzer
Every evening as I make the rounds of my
home to lock the doors, turn out the lights,
and tuck the children into bed, I have the
company of a four-footed watchdog. Bart is
a very large Great Pyrenees that makes the
rounds with me to ensure the two children
are in their beds, then walks to Susan’s side
of the bed to say good-night, then mine, and
finally settles down in the hallway to guard
for the night. I can sleep well knowing that
an intruder would be announced with loud
barks and met with deep growls.
This particular dog is not mine but shares
our home as a foster belonging to CGPR.
Having a dog like Bart in our home is one
of the rewards of fostering dogs for Martha.
Other rewards include helping a dog
go from scared and nervous to happy and
confident and then leave ready to be part of
another pack. Some foster dogs only need
a place to stay, but others need a little tender
loving care, brushing, and fattening up
before they are ready for a new home.
A foster dog can be nervous when he
comes to our home. The sights and smells
are new and different, and it can be stressful
to meet our existing pack of two dachshunds
and a female Great Pyrenees. To
ensure that everyone knows their place, we
keep the rescue dog on a lead while letting the dogs sniff each other,
and then we walk them around the
yard and house.
We give the foster time
and space to get settled.
Although all are intelligent,
the personality of
every Pyr is different.
Some respond to our
attentions immediately,
while others take several
days or weeks to warm
up to us.
We find out what each
dog enjoys and use that
as an incentive to behave
and bond. Brushing,
belly rubs, and rope bone
tug-of-wars are usually
winners, but the all-time
favorite is freeze-dried liver treats.
Regardless of the reward, the dogs
are eager to please and be praised.
It is not true that “you can’t teach
an old dog new tricks!”
At least that is not true for Pyrs.
They’ll quickly learn to become
part of the pack and feel like they
belong again.
Mealtimes for people are usually social
affairs, but for a new dog it can be stressful
to be hungry and yet not know the
pack’s etiquette and manners. I’ll feed the
dog in its crate to help reduce the fear of
losing its meal until it understands that
other canine members of the family
will not be allowed to eat its food. Pyrs
thrive with order and routine.
Sometimes a foster needs encouragement
to modify behaviors, and my
entire family, including my children
have become well-versed in understanding
dog behavior and providing
positive reinforcement and training.
Often the dog teaches us. One of
our favorite foster dogs would
gently take a child’s hand or
ankle and pull the child to Susan.
This confused us until we realized
she was trying to move everyone
together so she could keep
watch on us. We soon figured
out the dog was blind in one eye!
She was making the most of her
abilities and fulfilling her instinct to
guard the pack, part of the breeding of
these gentle giants. This “special needs”
dog went to a family with several “special
needs” children—a great match!
The toughest challenge we have faced
as a family is giving the foster dogs
back to go to their new home.
We spend weeks of effort to
make the young dogs into
well-adjusted family dogs or
to make the old dogs feel
young and have a lust for life
again. There is a personal
investment of time, energy,
and love that we freely give
to our foster dogs. Occasionally,
we hear back from the
new owners about the wonderful
dog they have, and it
gives us great satisfaction to
have helped.
CGPR needs more foster
homes. A dog entering foster
care still belongs to the rescue
program. Although there are some
additional costs associated with caring
for another dog, there is a taxdeduction
for keeping a foster dog.
(Martha or I gladly will explain this to
new foster Pyrents.) For us the benefits
of having a foster are rewarding
enough to keep us going. We get the
satisfaction of helping a deserving dog
become part of a new, welcoming
pack.
Please open your home to one of these
gentle giants. You won’t regret it.
Neither will the Pyr you save.